Frequently Asked Questions
Clear, Honest, and Compassionate Answers to Guide You Through Every Step of Your Adoption Journey.
Who can I talk to about my feelings?
You can always talk with one of our compassionate adoption specialists. We’re here to listen, support, and guide you through every step of your adoption journey. If you’re looking to hear from others who’ve made similar choices, we encourage you to visit our Testimonials or Birth Mother pages to read real stories from women who have walked this path.
Do I have to pay for the adoption?
No, there is no cost to you. In most states, birth mothers can receive financial help with living expenses such as rent, phone, utilities, food, transportation, and maternity clothes. Let us know if you need assistance, we are here to help.
How do I know the adoptive parents are reliable and caring?
We only work with adoptive parents who have been fully approved through a rigorous screening process, including background checks and a home study conducted by a licensed social worker. We are highly selective and committed to matching you with families who are emotionally and financially prepared to raise a child.
Can I choose the adoptive parents?
Yes. After reviewing profiles of families who match your preferences, you choose the adoptive parents that feel right to you.
Can I meet the adoptive parents or get to know them?
Yes, if that’s what you want. Many birth mothers choose to speak with the adoptive parents by phone, video chat, or even meet in person before the birth. You decide how much or how little contact you want, both before and after the adoption.
I don’t have a solid support system at home. Can I have someone to lean on?
Yes. Your adoption specialist is available day and night to offer guidance and emotional support. You are never alone in this process; we will walk with you every step of the way.
What if I go into labor before selecting adoptive parents?
It’s okay. Even if you haven’t chosen adoptive parents before going into labor, we will work quickly to present qualified families and ensure your baby goes directly to a loving home. Your baby will not enter foster care.
How should I talk to my other children or family members about adoption?
Every situation is unique. Your adoption specialist can share examples and advice from other birth mothers who have had these conversations. Together, we will help you find the words and support you need.
What about my privacy, will my information be kept confidential?
Yes. Everything you share with us is kept private and confidential. Only the people you choose to involve will be part of your adoption journey.
Additional Questions
What kind of legal support will I receive?
You will work directly with experienced adoption attorneys who manage every aspect of your adoption journey, from preparing paperwork and handling consents to navigating state laws and finalizing the adoption. All legal services are arranged for you and provided at no cost.
Can I specify medical or personal values preferences for the adoptive family?
Yes. You can share what matters most to you, such as medical history, lifestyle, religion, or other values, and we will present adoptive family profiles that reflect your preferences.
What happens after the adoption is finalized? Do I still have support?
Yes. We continue to offer support after the adoption is finalized. We can help with resources such as GED assistance, career or education planning, referrals, and other services to support your next steps.
How do you handle open adoption arrangements?
You choose the level of openness you are comfortable with. That might include phone calls, emails, texts, photo updates, or occasional visits. We will help you create a plan that works best for you and is in the best interest of your child.
What support is available if things become emotionally difficult after placement?
We understand this can be an emotional journey, and we are here for you. Your adoption specialist will remain available to provide continued support, guidance, and encouragement after placement.
Will I receive counseling and is it free?
Yes. Counseling is available at no cost to you. Whether before, during, or after your adoption plan is complete, we can help you access emotional support resources tailored to your needs.
How do you ensure cultural or religious preferences are respected?
We work with adoptive families from diverse backgrounds, and you are encouraged to select a family that reflects your cultural, religious, or personal values.
Can I change my mind after starting the process? What happens then?
You are in control of your adoption plan. If your feelings or circumstances change, let us know. We will walk you through your options without judgment. If the adoption has not yet been completed, you still have the right to reconsider.
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